Before you do anything else, it's important to get your head on straight. The videos below, will help you get clarity for the journey to come.
Nothing about this process is going to be fair.
I'm going to be asking you to do some really hard things. You're going to feel like you're constantly biting your tongue, and you're going to think you're being WAY nicer (to your loved one) than they deserve.
Here's what I want you to know... YES, YOU ARE CORRECT! You are being WAY nicer to them than they deserve!
It might even feel like you're enabling. In fact other people, might even feel the need to tell you that you are enabling.
This is when you might want to revisit your "WHY "(from the first section).
This process is NOT about being fair, it's about being STRAGETIC!
Remember your goal is to save your family. Even though it's going to get very uncomfortanble at times, it will be worth it in the end.
These are some of the core principles of the CRAFT method. These are not to be considered "one and done" steps. There will be some trial and error, and you'll need to repeat these steps as necessary.